Money is never enough.
Every day, our expenses seem to increase. Even when our spending remains the same, the prices of goods and services continue to rise because of inflation. At the same time, a salary increment of only 3% is often nowhere near enough to keep pace with the rising cost of living.
One of the things I enjoyed most while spending time with my manager at the mill canteen—whether during breakfast, lunch, or dinner, away from the hustle and bustle of mill operations—was listening to him share his experiences, advice, and guidance for life.
Whenever he started talking, I would give him my full attention. I remember looking at his sincere expression as he occasionally took a puff from his cigarette while enjoying a cup of bitter coffee. In the background, the sound of boiler steam and condensate from the steriliser chamber reminded us that the mill was operating.
He shared many lessons with me—lessons that have remained useful throughout my life.
Among the most important were saving money, investing wisely, and using money to develop valuable skills and competencies throughout our careers.
At that time, I was still single, unmarried, and had very few financial commitments. Although my salary was small, I did not consider it a serious problem if I spent almost everything I earned each month.
But everything changed after I got married and started a family.
Suddenly, every ringgit spent had to be carefully considered.
A few years later, I got married and was blessed with our first child. Around the same period, I experienced some problems at work and decided to submit my resignation. At that time, I had not secured another job.
Yes, that was the time of being young and inexperienced. Like many young people, some decisions were made emotionally without fully considering the consequences.
I returned to my hometown because the trip had already been planned earlier. A few days later, however, I was persuaded to reconsider, and my resignation was eventually rejected. So, I returned to work.
On my way back to the plantation, I stopped at the market as usual to buy some basic necessities.
Because I had submitted my resignation, my salary for that month had been withheld.
And the truth was—I had no savings.
Without checking my bank balance, I went to the supermarket assuming that my salary would already have been credited. I filled my trolley with basic necessities.
When I finally reached the cashier, I discovered the truth.
My salary had not been paid.
I stood there embarrassed and helpless. I had no choice but to cancel the entire purchase.
In desperation, I called a friend and asked to borrow RM500. That money allowed me to buy the most basic necessities, including milk for my child and rice, before returning to the plantation.
That incident left a deep impression on me.
It taught me a lesson that I would remember for many years:
Having an income is not the same as having financial security.
Looking back, after getting married and having our first child, I had never really planned our finances properly. Almost everything I earned was spent on the family.
It was understandable in a way. Having our first child brought a new kind of happiness and responsibility. Every need of the child received our attention, but we rarely stopped to consider the long-term financial consequences.
For the first time, I sat down with my wife and openly discussed our salary, expenses, debts, and financial commitments.
We divided our responsibilities. I handed part of the household expenses to her to manage, while I took responsibility for the rest.
That was also the beginning of my savings journey.
I started saving almost 30% of my net salary.
The next step was to reduce my debt.
At that time, my only significant debt was my PTPTN education loan, which I had taken to finance my university studies. I decided to accelerate the repayment by allocating around RM1,000 every month from my salary.
After almost two years, the loan was fully settled.
It was a great feeling to finally be free from that financial commitment.
I also requested my company to make monthly zakat deductions directly from my salary and remit them to the state zakat authority.
Another 10% of my income was set aside as an emergency fund.
Over the years, I came across many financial management principles suggesting that monthly expenses and financial commitments should ideally not exceed 60% of net income.
If our commitments go beyond that level, our financial position can become increasingly vulnerable.
However, with today's challenging economic conditions, maintaining that 60% threshold is not always easy.
The cost of raising a family continues to increase. Basic commitments such as housing, transportation, education, food, utilities, and other necessities can consume a significant portion of our income.
Credit cards can make the situation even worse when outstanding balances are carried forward and high interest charges accumulate.
This is why financial management is not simply about earning more money.
It is about knowing where our money goes, controlling our spending, reducing unnecessary debt, building savings, and preparing ourselves for unexpected circumstances.
My RM500 experience at the supermarket was painful at the time.
But looking back, it was one of the most valuable financial lessons I ever received.
It taught me that we should never wait for a financial crisis before learning how to manage our money.
Start small.
Save whatever you can.
Pay down your debts.
Build an emergency fund.
Invest in yourself and develop competencies that can increase your value throughout your career.
Most importantly, discuss financial matters openly with your spouse and family.
Money may never feel like it is enough, but good financial discipline can make the money we have go much further.
May we all be given ease, relief from the burden of debt, wisdom in managing our finances, and abundant sustenance.
This is my story today.







