For more than 25 years, I kept my hair short. The last time I had long hair was during my matriculation days in 1999. After joining PALAPES, I maintained a very short haircut — often trimmed using clipper number 0. Most of the time, I even cut my own hair at home every two or three weeks.
I also shared with them that keeping longer hair is not something foreign in Islam. There were times when Prophet Muhammad ﷺ kept his hair long, reaching his shoulders, while maintaining cleanliness and neatness. I even showed them some illustrations.
So why change my hairstyle now, approaching my 50s?
Midlife crisis? Maybe. But the story goes deeper than that.
The change began in early 2025 when I was entrusted with a heavy responsibility — taking over the management of a factory. At the same time, my health was declining. I carried pain with me every single day. I did not want to appear weak or defeated. That was when I decided to change — not just externally, but internally as well.
I started growing my hair, colouring it, and most importantly, committing to daily walks and brisk walking routines.
It became a symbol of renewal. A new spirit. Gradually, my health improved. My inner strength grew stronger and helped me face many challenges. Eventually, I was transferred to Indonesia, carrying this new style and renewed energy with me.
And perhaps the most meaningful part — my wife truly loves this new look. She has quietly held this wish for many years, hoping to see me with longer hair. Maybe a little K-Pop style, she says.
Now, I am patiently waiting for my hair to grow long enough to tie it neatly at the back.
To my brother and sister — forgive me and allow me this change.
But don’t worry. I will not become someone careless or unkempt. I aspire to follow the example of Rasulullah ﷺ — maintaining dignity, cleanliness, and good self-care.
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